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Simple facts about me and my family~ We love each other, We love God, We try to teach love and respect to all people in our home.  We deal with lots of different issues from week to week.... some include autism, some include pediatric bipolar/nos- some include medications that go along with those issues and rotate around many Doctor and psychologist appointments. We are constantly looking for different ways to handle therapy for our kids.  We deal w/ biracial issues from time to time as well as other discriminative issues in our oldest adult son's life.  We are always handling different meltdowns each day w/ one child or another for some reason or another.... some parents would not even realize that the simple things their kids get over in 30 seconds can take my kids 30 min's to get over~ We are grateful however for how far our kids have come compared to their original diagnosis.  The above is just a small snap shot of what my husband and I have gone through in the last 12 yrs.... Jovin our middle son will be 12 yrs on Dec 8th,2010- Our life changed so much after that- but the years preceding that event was so full of so many struggles and amazing God moments as well.... To endure loosing our jobs early in our marriage,loosing our home, having to start over w/ an already 4 yr old child.  Dealing w/ infertility for over 5 yrs- going through infertility treatment- having a child then w/ autism and then another w/ a form of disability on the spectrum as well- loosing everything to medical bankruptcy-and starting over again- all in all through all those years, me in a deep depression and on many medications for it. I am amazed we are still intact! God is truly amazing and faithful!